The Act of Loving Yourself

L.O.V.E. This magical four letter word means many different things to many different people. Love can be defined as an intense feeling of deep affection and this feeling can be towards a wide variety of things in the world. The feeling of love is special and it’s important to truly love yourself because YOU are amazing.

Most people associate February with LOVE because of Valentine’s Day and because it’s so important to love yourself, we want to share some tidbits on how to do just that. Sometimes, it’s the little things that you do that can show yourself some love. You can:

Begin your day with your thoughts and not technology/social media: Think about something that you are grateful for and set positive intentions for the day. Listen to your breath and the silence of the world as you begin taking on a new day.

Expand your interests: Life can easily become monotonous. Try something new and give your brain some stimulation.

Enjoy life enhancing activities: Find an exercise you like. Spend time preparing healthy food. Get crafty. Try pole dancing.

Be patient with yourself. Sometimes, all good things take time. Just breathe. It will happen.

Forgive yourself: Mistakes happen so why not learn from them? Use mistakes as lessons and move forward and onwards. Don’t punish yourself because you are only human.

Revive the fun version of you: Make room to play and let loose. Have fun. Laugh. Be silly. Having fun is truly good for the soul.

Focus on the positive: There are positive things happening all around you. Pause and think about all of the goodness in your life.

Have a long hot bath: Hot water plus you, yourself and you…need we say more?

For those of you with a lover or two, you may want to show them some extra love this Valentine’s Day. Are you stuck on what you should do for them? Three of favourite suggestions are:

  1. Trade sensual massages. This is a great way to awaken your senses and help create a connection between the giver and receiver.
  2. Provide your lover with a lap dance. Get your sexy on to your favourite sexy song. Not sure how to give a lap dance? We can help you out!
  3. Have a sexy morning meal (a.k.a. breakfast in bed). Nothing is sexier than feeding your lover fresh berries in the glow of the morning sun.

Remember, you are sexy. You are beautiful. You are the one and only you! Happy LOVE month.